Confidence

How many of you struggle with your body I know I do and it's ok if you do . As women, it can be hard not to compare ourselves to others. Often we women see these perfect bodies on social media and we start to tear ourselves apart saying things like "why don't I look like that", or maybe if I looked like them I will be happy . The truth is nobody is perfect and we have to learn to accept that. Just because we may see someone who in our eyes has this perfect` body and face doesn't mean they don't also struggle with their own things too. A friend once told me "if everyone was perfect, then we would all be the same and that's no fun. What we as women have to grow to understand is that all the flaws we have are what make us each unique. Learn to embrace the flaws and own it be proud of them. I know that is easier said than done, but you can start working on body positivity day by day. Say if your looking in the mirror one day and you catch yourself pointing out something negative about yourself replace that with something positive. I will give you an example of my own, the other day I caught myself bringing myself down for how my face looked like, but I replaced that by saying ok maybe I do not look the best today but at least I have a bright outgoing personality. It starts with us women to empower others let's bring each other up. I often see everywhere some women bringing others down whether that be weight, facial features , etc. Let us start today by not doing that and let's instead lift others up whether that be telling another person you like their outfit anything let's lift one another up.

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How to grow a platform on social media

When it comes to social media its a lot harder then people think . If one really wants to dedicate their time to social media and growing their platform its all about the effort you put in . In my lifetime some people have asked me how I got the amount of followers I have, specifically on tiktok . There are three tips I have to anyone who wants to become a social media influencer first tip is to stay up to date on content, do not post for one week and then wait a long period of time to post again . If you are really serious about growing one needs to constantly posting, this lets your viewers know you are working on putting stuff out there and they have content that they can look forward to watching . If you do not post a lot eventually you will loose followers due to the fact that simply you are not putting anything out there for them to watch . Even if you think the content you are posting is not good , do not let that hold you back because there are tons of people who all like different things, just because you do not like it does not mean others wont . My second tip is to interact with your followers its important to build some type of connections with the followers you have at the end of the day they are the ones who are supporting you return the same energy back . It can be as simple as commenting back on comments, following back or liking their comments . My last and final tip is to stay true to yourself this is so important because you want people to see your true self. Yes there may be some people who will dislike you or say hateful things , but that is the reality of life not everyone is going to like you . Being yourself is a good thing tho because eventually one day people will find out who you really are so do not hide it cause eventually it will come out .